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Did you和do you哪个都不婉转。Would you like to do something只有这个句子表达的意思就是婉转的邀请某人去做某事。比如:Would you like to play basketball with me?(你愿意和我一起打篮球吗？)他的回答有CertainlyOf course.或者I'd love to等等。